Love is often nothing but a favorable exchange between two people who get the most of what they can expect, considering their value on the personality market.
What most people in our culture mean by being lovable is essentially a mixture between being popular and having sex appeal.
Most people die before they are fully born. Creativeness means to be born before one dies.
In erotic love, two people who were separate become one. In motherly love, two people who were one become separate. The mother must not only tolerate, she must wish and support the child's separation.
People have committed suicide because of their failure to realize the passions for love, power, fame, revenge. Cases of suicide because of a lack of sexual satisfaction are virtually nonexistent.