Coming out to gays is a way of affirming sanity and self-worth.
All who love are conspirators.
As I said, men value their independence in a weird way, above practically everything.
Finally, fighting for gay rights, speaking out in various places and making friends, men and women, was great.
Men are actually the weaker sex.
Men spend their whole lives showing that they're strong and silent. They fight for independence the way women struggle to connect.
We have many cases of men committing suicide rather than face their own individuality. I know of no case of a woman who committed suicide because she was gay.
We each have a personal myth, a vision of who we really are and what we want. Health means that part of what you want is to give to others.