A lot of us have jobs where we need to give people structure but that is different from controlling.
A spiritual person is also in touch with his or her own reality, feelings and thoughts, and the reality of the people around him or her, not projecting on them.
There never was a social change in America without angry people at the heart.
We are a nation of people who are afraid we are not enough.
We religious controllers control in the name of Jesus and it is really painful to people.
What happens is that people who are very religious but who are not in touch with reality, cannot be spiritual.