The easiest thing to be in the world is you. The most difficult thing to be is what other people want you to be. Don't let them put you in that position.
I believe that you control your destiny, that you can be what you want to be. You can also stop and say, No, I won't do it, I won't behave his way anymore. I'm lonely and I need people around me, maybe I have to change my methods of behaving and then you do it.
I've always thought that people need to feel good about themselves and I see my role as offering support to them, to provide some light along the way.
We need not be afraid to touch, to feel, to show emotion. The easiest thing in the world is to be what you are, what you feel. The hardest thing to be is what other people want you to be. Don't let them put you in that position.
Who is the loving person? The loving person is the person who loves him or herself. I say this so often, and people say, Oh yes, you're so right, but they don't do it! You will never be able to love anyone else until you love yourself. Even With your Fat Thighs!
People are not here to meet your expectations.