Problem is there are too many sissies and prima donnas -- stop talking and get it done.
In this day and age, some turn 18 and think they're a man or a woman and that's it, but that's just not true. You have to establish your manhood or your womanhood with actions.
As Cro-Magnon as it sounds, the problem with attitudes is some people have just never had their ass kicked -- and I don't mean necessarily in the physical sense.
Everybody's a genius, it's just a matter of whether you love yourself enough to admit it to yourself and fly with whatever your area of genius is.