Every gift from a friend is a wish for your happiness.
Every problem has a gift for you in its hands.
There is no such thing as a problem without a gift for you in its hands. You seek problems because you need their gifts.
Evolution made civilization steward of this planet. A hundred thousand years later, the steward stood before evolution not helper but destroyer, not healer but parasite. So evolution withdrew its gift, passed civilization by, rescued the planet from intelligence and handed it to Love.