If you go to war with your mind, you will always be at war.
Is it love, or is it attachment? Do you want to love her, or do you want to control her?
To love, and be loved, this is the greatest challenge that any of us face in our lives.
Accustom yourself not to be disregarding of what someone else has to say: as far as possible enter into the mind of the speaker.
The things about others that irritate, annoy, and unsettle us are the very things we have not accepted and embraced about ourselves