I don't believe in virgin sacrifice. It encourages promiscuity at an early age
[H]e is a barbarian, and thinks that the customs of his tribe and island are the laws of nature.
Passion and courtesy are two polar opposite traits that serve to balance each other into a full-blooded whole. Without socialization, passion is a crude barbarian, and without passion, the elegant and polite are dead. Allow both passion and courtesy into your life in equal measure, and be complete.
You can take the barbarian out of the tavern, but he can take the blood out of your body.