Forget about style; worry about results.
You need to decide to stop letting their crazy box you in.
One of my rules is never to look sideways at what other people are doing but instead, do what I feel is right.
Utu--Maori revenge. 'Do everything well, boy. Do it better than them. Be a better rugby player, better at your job. Outshine them everywhere. Tramp on their pride. Go far, and leave them sniveling in your dust.